At the beginning of this week Eve asked me to run through all the activities we had planned for each day. When I finally arrived at Friday I said with relief: "Friday is a free day!" When Eve asked me what a "free day" was, I explained that it is a day when we have nothing extra to do. While this may be a relief to me, it is not so much to my little social butterfly. In obvious denial she asked again what we were going to do. I said "Oh, a little housework and just kind of chill." Needless to say she wasn't anticipating Friday very much.
My issue is I don't know how to just chill very well. I found my self wandering around the house today trying to relax and not do extra chores. I did play with the kids, Eve read me a book, we did a couple of crafts, I have taken a ton of pictures, and had a cup of tea. Still, I feel guilty for not baking or cleaning, for not organizing something. My hands are restless for busy work. But this day is set aside to recuperate from the week, and we all really need it. I just have to convince myself that it is okay to relax and not do the unnecessary that feels so necessary. I guess I accomplished that objective when it came to getting dressed since I'm still sporting lounge pants and a comfy J. Crew shirt. It's the small victories we have to celebrate, right?
My issue is I don't know how to just chill very well. I found my self wandering around the house today trying to relax and not do extra chores. I did play with the kids, Eve read me a book, we did a couple of crafts, I have taken a ton of pictures, and had a cup of tea. Still, I feel guilty for not baking or cleaning, for not organizing something. My hands are restless for busy work. But this day is set aside to recuperate from the week, and we all really need it. I just have to convince myself that it is okay to relax and not do the unnecessary that feels so necessary. I guess I accomplished that objective when it came to getting dressed since I'm still sporting lounge pants and a comfy J. Crew shirt. It's the small victories we have to celebrate, right?
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oh gosh...i totally feel the same way...i feel like i should always be doing SOMETHING! LOL So, when i am not cleaning/organizing or hanging with my kids, i work on my cross stitch! I do them for gifts and that way i am beign productive while still relaxing!!! :)
I struggle with this as well...I think it may be a female thing..or just a type A personality thing..not sure. It is a challenge to just "be still and know." That's kinda been my mantra for the year...I'm glad you had a little still time with the kiddos today. PS...I'll let you know on the message board I made for Blake's girlfriend...the party is tomorrow!! I hope she at least likes it!!LOL!
I think it's a female thing :) I ALWAYS have to be doing something. I hope you all enjoyed your relaxing day together!
Hope you're having a great day! Call me if you want.
I think it's not only good for us mom's to take a chill day but our kids too. They need to know that they don't always have to be busy doing "things". It seems that now adays there are so many distractions in the world and the art of doing "nothing" has been lost. Things were so much simpler when I was growing up. I hope I can teach this to my boys.
I believe everyone needs time to chill. If not you get so wrapped up in the everyday things we forget what life is really about ourselves God and family.
I agree, it is tough to not want to get to all those little things that you could be doing and just enjoy being for a while. I just wanted to say thanks for posting the encouraging words on my blog! I had my little boy and he was much smaller than expected! I feel like know you from reading yours. What kind of camera do you have? Your pictures are amazing!
You need a day of rest. Often. Consider it a 'scrip from the Great Physician. It's as important a lesson to teach as any other, I think.
We try to have a "pajama day" as we call them at least every other week.
with all of that craft making going on sure doesn't sound like a free day LOL Glad you were able to relax somewhat though!
Yikes! I don't think I am ready for kids at all...haha! Sometimes I think I would go crazy trying to stay a step ahead of the kids, and other times I think it would be so fun...
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