We are having yet another snow storm in this fine state of Vermont. I growl about it but it is February after all. I should expect this.
To preface this re-accounting, I must tell you I have this quirky thing about me.... when I hear about a storm coming I panic a little. I must go to the store and stock up on six hundred and eighty seven eggs, twelve loaves of bread, twenty-seven gallons of milk, fifteen pounds of butter and enough snacks to feed an army. Just in case.
I'm so weird.
Here is where the problem developed. Daniel had to work late last night and my angel-girl who plays with Eve and Judah for a couple hours in the afternoon wasn't able to come.
You know where this is going, right?
Remember when I told you that I hadn't gone shopping with the three kids yet? The day that I had psyched myself up to go we had a snow storm? That I'm a wimp? Well, that is all history, baby....
I decided it was the night - I was going to do it. All three kids and I were going to conquer my fears together. Before I could wimp out I loaded them up in the van ( no small feat in and of itself!) and off we drove through the snow to get it done.
Before we got out to go and shop at the health food store I laid out the "plan." I'm going to choose to think that my "plan" wasn't a form of bribery but wisdom from above. Sounds good, right?! Okay, we'll roll with that. This is what I did: I explained that by their good behavior in the store they could earn a trip to the library. (You have to know I would not have taken them to the library if they had bad behavior. Just ask Daniel. I'm all about following through with what I've said. )
Happy screams all around!
In the store we went and they were angels. Seriously. This is the store that causes me to quiver in fear when I think of taking the kids in it. Small, narrow aisles; tons of low shelves perfect for curious hands to grab items from and usually I am buying eggs. All that spells: T-R-O-U-B-L-E. But Judah didn't grab one thing. The kids held hands the whole time and were very helpful.
Library trip earned.
Happy screams all around, again!
Next was the grocery store. And it was busy. Judah only took one thing off the shelf - a box of pasta. But, he put it right back - no stress. They did amazing again! It really helped to have them hold hands the whole time we were out of the van. That meant only one hand was free to preform mischief... cutting the chances of that happening in half! This time for their good behavior they earned a trip to the tiny grocery store down the road from our house. It is the store where we buy ice cream cones for their after dinner(If they have eaten well) ice cream dessert.
More happy screams!
So, in all I took the kids ( all three, remember!) to the health food store, the grocery store, the library, and the tiny grocery store. In a snow storm. Nothing like easing in, right! I thought about it later that evening and realized it was true to my all or nothing nature.
Go big or go home...
And I couldn't go home - I had twenty-five pounds of bananas to buy.
28 Comments:
Andrea, you just crack me up! Okay, so I don't know how you managed to get ALL 3 of your kids to behave. I struggle with my two, mostly with Braydon though. Bribes don't work with him, I've got to come up with something though! But I'm so happy that you managed to make it through everything with all 3 well behaved!!
Great Job.Proud of you...following through is the key...You go girl. Your a great Mom.
You go girlfriend! I knew ya had in you! LOL!!!
I find that as long as I slap Emma in her sling - things go a lot smoother!
At least I don't have to deal with the snow though - yuck!
Alicia
Hehe, this post inspires me. I have yet to go to the store with my two. The baby is four months old, and I'm so scared! The time is fast coming when I won't be able to avoid it, though. I hope I have as much luck as you did...
Okay, so I am dying to see the size of the fridge you must have and the pantry, it must be gianormous!
Ok, I'm a little confused about the 25lb of bananas. Are you using your usual exageration or did you really need that much bananas for something :)
Seriously, Tarrah!!!! You're too funny! I'm glad it went so well for you! Hope it continues.
Mom
Andrea, you are an amazing woman! I need you to teach me this amazing skill with Olyvia!
What an AMAZING picture!
Andrea, there is no better feeling in the world than a good day when a fear is conquered. YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!
That looks beautiful!
Girl, you make it all sound so easy :) I'm all about the reward system! It motivates me and the kids!
You're so funny... but lady, your kids... they're TOO good. that soooo wouldn't have worked for mine!! No more whinin'!
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Aaaah, yes. The "get it before the hoarders get there" mentallity. Woohoo!
Good job! That first out of the way.
Mmmm...banana bread! When we get the occasional snow here in Plainsville my neighbors (all of them) do the same as you. A week or so later I make tons of banana bread with all their over-ripe nanners to share...with them of course! You are an amazing Momma!
Way to go!! I tend to do the same thing...all or nothin'!
By the way I love your Wordless Wednesday photos..esp Judah..too cute!!
And thanks for all the encouragement on my scrapbooking!!
Good for you! Success!
Bravo! I love how you ended the post. Very well written. Didn't you feel like ninja mom or something after you were finished? I would have.
I've never done that well with all three of mine. I usually try to wait until the hubs gets home or load off a couple at my mother-in-laws. Today though I have to try and get some shopping done- with all of them. It should be interesting. Yay- for your very successful trip- were you able to find your 25 pounds of bananas? Lol! ;)
I knew you could do it. My sister is the same way about storms. She goes to the store to stock up. I go out in a storm, it doesn't bother me. Your picture is beautiful.
you rock, miss thang! the thought of shopping with everyone (although sometimes necessary) makes me break out in hives...add snow, and yeah, i think i need me a nap. :)
You are amazing....doesnt it feel good though? And you have food....the weather may be bad but it sure is beautiful.
Congratulations!!
Awwww, I'm so glad your first trip out was a good one. Making them hold hands is a really good idea.
Wow, three kids acting like angels? What are you, some kind of super mom? I'm going to reiterate myself and say that when I have children I hope I'm as good a mother as you are. Keep it up, lady, you inspire me.
Oh wow! You are one tough lady! I don't think I would have attempted that until Eliza was maybe 3 or 4. Ha! I can barely handle my two boys at the store. I'm standing in awe of you right now :)
I lived in Vermont for one winter, near Burlington. So I know for sure you get a lot of snow but it's one of the most beautiful states of all, right up there with my Colorado. :-)
I totally understand feeling like you need to stock up when a storm is coming. After all, you never know how long it's going to last and I personally have lived through two blizzards where we were actually trapped in our house for a few days.
Congratulations on finding the courage to venture out with all 3 kids. Nerves of steel, that's what you have!
By the way, the FotoFests of Judah and Eve are wonderful - great, great photos.
GOOD FOR YOU!!
I was so scared to venture out with my 3 kids at first too. I just realized yesterday (the baby is now 3 months old) that I have become an "old pro" at dragging my little kiddies all over with me!
Ok, maybe I can take them everywhere, but I get really stressed. So maybe I am not doing so hot. ;)
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