Logistics deemed that for our trip home to New York Judah and Daniel would fly Southwest while the girls and I would fly Delta. I must say that those Southwest flying boys had better snacks. Thankfully Judah did awesome on all the planes; he, not surprisingly, melted hearts all across the United States of America. I love this picture of him hanging out, waiting to get on the next airplane.
My time flying with the girls was not so serene. The initial set of flights coming home were the best I have ever had. The flights back to New Mexico... not so much. First, Eve and I got separated when we tried to ride the train at the Atlanta airport. It was the most awful thing I have ever experienced. Eve, Eliza, and I were trying to get on the train - Eve was a couple steps in front of me - when an older woman literally shoved me out of the way so her husband could get on in front of me. Remember I had a baby on my hip! Because the woman shoved me out of the way, Eve got on the train but I could not. The door started to shut but I shouted and stuck my hand in between; the door quickly re-opened but then shut again. Seeing the absolute terror on my little girl's face as the train pulled away from me was something I will never be able to erase from my mind. I stood there on the platform and wept. I wish I had known, as I stood there crying, that God had provided two very protective angels for my girl. There was a middle-age couple from our flight to Atlanta who had gotten on the train and saw the whole thing; the woman held Eve and her husband held Eve's bag - I saw this when I was finally able to get to where Eve was. Oh, how I wanted to hug that man and that woman. The wife was literally banging on the window of my train as it pulled up. God, bless those people. Eve and I sat on the floor in the middle of that busy train platform and hugged for the longest time, but my heart will never fully recover.
Secondly, Eliza cried the entire three hour and fifteen minute second flight. The people seated around me kept giving me evil looks. Like, make that baby shut-up, kind of looks. As if I was pinching her or something. And the flight attendant took an hour to get me a stupid spoon. All I wanted to do was feed my baby her cereal! It was bad; I walked off that plane and promptly handed Eliza to Daniel. This mama and that baby needed some serious space from each other.
A more comical story... On our way back from North Carolina (and Washington D.C. - be still my heart!) Daniel and I stopped in Harrisburg PA.; we were looking for a gas station and a Starbucks. At the Starbucks Daniel decided I should go in and get the (much needed) coffee; I like to make my coffee taste good rather than drinking it black like he does. Ick. Being the good girl I am I crossed the street by way of the handy-dandy crosswalk. As I was crossing a car approached, it neither stopped or slowed down... like at all! The woman was so close to hitting me that if I had taken one more step she literally would have run me over. I know this because I kicked her car as she drove past me. And you'd better believe I kicked it hard. Don't mess with this red-headed woman... I have children and a husband who need me to do their laundry and cook their meals! I can't die yet!
All in all, it was a fantastic vacation filled to the brim with mostly great memories. I wish I could write them all down just so I could make sure to remember. But, for one thing, that would be boring to anyone who reads this, except perhaps Daniel. Or my mother. And, sometimes it seems that writing down memories takes some of the specialness away from them. So, I'll just leave them in my heart.
And now we are back to reality....
The first day of real life kind of stunk but I'm getting use to it. Daniel is taking classes as a full time student this semester along with working full time. It's not going to be easy but I have felt God's amazing grace these last few days. I have a peace in my heart that I can't fully understand; I simply know we will make it work. And I can guarantee you that this next seven weeks will not even come close to touching the stress and hard times we went through with Daniel recruiting. Truly, in comparison, this feels like a cake walk.
Even so, if I start to sound a little more nutty than usual, you'll know why. Just tell me to go eat some chocolate or, better yet, send me some wine....
23 Comments:
Okay, I was so loving your retro suitcase behind Judah! Cool, cool, cool!
However, your story about you and Eve getting separated made me bawl like a baby ~ like the one that's still awake in my arms at this wee hour! Oh my word, I just can't imagine! My heart ached for you! AND HER!
I'm glad your home and gettin' back in the groove ~ I've missed you lately! :)
Oh my gosh, I just feel ill reading that bit about Eve on the train. Andrea, I would have just fallen apart! Thank God (literally) it all worked out alright! That's the stuff of nightmares...
Glad you had a good trip other than that! It's always good to be home in your own space again though, isn't it?
What a great photo!!
There are angels everywhere, thankfully Eve had 2 to help her. I remember in March we were taking the train in Tokyo, and my 8 year old walked onto the train as the doors began to close. Thankfully we were right by the front and the driver saw what happened. He immediately knew and opened the doors for us. However the look on Noah's face I will never forget...
holy moly! that is just about the most awesome thing that you kicked the car. totally NOT awesome that you were able to, but the fact that you did it... yah.
i cannot imagine your experience losing eve like that. Thank God for those people... that is just awful.
I feel your pain on the train. Wow the terror you must have felt.
I'm so glad it worked out though.
Coming back off holiday whether you leave or stay home is not so good. But I'm glad you got to see family, make memories and enjoy your time there.
Oh my goodness! You being separated from Eve broke my heart! That had to be the scariest thing EVER! So glad everything worked out. And so thankful the Big Guy upstairs was in control of the situation the whole time! Sounds like a great trip!
Just reading about you being seperated from Eve had my heart racing and a lump in my throat. I can't imagine your heartache and hers!! I'm so glad those sweet people were there to be with her.
Oh my goodness, I can't even imagine an incident like that! Thank God everything turned out alright. Glad you had a good time!
Ah! How terrifying! Thank goodness someone saw what happened and helped Eve. I would have fallen apart losing one of my kids. So glad to hear you were reunited quickly.
Poor Eve! Poor you! That must have been terrifying! You should have kicked that lady just like the car. :)
I just cried reading about you and Eve being seperated. I imagined me and my little girl and just thinking about it makes me freak. Thank goodness those people were there to help you.
The train story made my stomach lurch. Ack!
Thank God for that couple, INDEED.
The store I shop in sells Green and Black chocolate. I think of your love for it when I pass by it. If you ever get desperate - let me know, I'll ship some your way.
Oh, you poor woman! I can't imagine the terror you went through being separated from your little girl. I'm 7 years older than my sister. When she was about 2ish, I lost her in Walmart. I was frantic. My mom found her, then she found me. Boy was I in trouble! Anyways, until my sister was (and I kid you not) 16 years old, I held her hand everywhere we went lol. I just can't imagine it happening with my own little one. I'm so glad that the Lord sent those two loving people into your lives at that moment!
So glad you had a nice vacation. The story about Eve actually brought a tear to my eyes - I could just imagine what that must have felt like. The terror, and the momentary heartbreak.
And I'm sad to say I can relate to the screaming baby on a flight. I posted a story about flying with Leah back in November. I will never forget how awful it was, nor will I ever forget how little support I received from anyone on that plane.
Glad you are at peace with all the busy-ness going on in your life . . . I feel sort of the same way lately. Things are completely crazy, but I feel like it's all the way it's supposed to be :-)
I don't know if you have mentioned this, but why do you and daniel fly seperatly?
Judah is so adorble!
Rosepetal4-
Daniel and I don't normally fly separately; this time it was a combo of two free tickets, a travel voucher, and one purchased ticket. Somehow it worked out perfectly with departure and arrival times!! I was amazed.
After the part about the doors shutting and the terror on little Eve's face, all I remember reading was yada, yada, yada...
I am too so very, very thankful for the two angels.
So sorry about the Littlest E on the flight back.
We are all thrilled you are home, safe and sound.
I am a lurker, but I just had to comment on your airport story. I fly through Atlanta A LOT and those shuttles are crazy. I am terrified of becoming separated from my kids in this way! (Although my kids are now grown I don't think this is going to be much of a issue anymore! :D)
Also, when my husband was in the AF we spent 2 years (+/-) while he did both. It was very busy to say the least. Partway into it the first Gulf War kicked off, but God worked things out that he didn't have to deploy, even though his unit did! Then we went through another couple of years when he did his graduate work. Same thing, full time military, full time school. Hang in there! It will be worth all the work!
Sondre Lyn-
Thank you so much for your encouragement. It meant so much to me to read that it will be worth it, especially from someone who has been down the same road.
-Andrea
sheesh! what a trip!
I SO feel your pain on the airplane. On our last trip (Evan was 1.5 at the time) he cried the whole trip! It was awful...the looks and all, I was bawling the whole time. Some nice girl even tried to give him some chips. Luckily we were in the very last row so we didn't annoy the WHOLE plane.
I've also almost been hit...well backed into. This guy was backing up and didn't see me, so I started pounding on his back window...it was hillarious. Scared him to death, but he stopped!
Glad you all are home and getting back to "normal' :)
Hi Andie -
I was SO sad that we didn't get to see you guys when we crossed in NY. It seemed to awful to be in the same city and not at least get to hug you. I'm glad your trip went well, though.
I had a dream right before our last plane trip where Juli and I got separated like that. We were on a shuttle, it stopped at a station and a rush of people got off. And then the doors closed and I looked through the glass and Juli was outside. Even in my dream I freaked out. Poor Juli! I think I cut off the circulation in her arm every time we rode a shuttle that trip!
Oh my word! Tears sprang to my eyes as I read about you and Eve being separated. The nerve of that lady! I can imagine the fear that was struck in your heart. Oh man, I'm just not getting over this.
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