Daniel and I are supremely protective of our children's minds, their eyes and their hearts. We take guarding their innocence very seriously. Eve often sings that little song "Oh, be careful little eyes what you see...." and she knows that it is true. That it's not just a cute song, we do need to be very careful. You can imagine then, this time of year is especially hard for us. There are grotesque masks, decorations, figurines, clothing everywhere. Evil is a celebrated event.
We have a grocery store chain here in Vermont called Hannaford's, maybe some of you have this store as well. Hannaford's will receive no business from me during this time of year as I absolutely cannot take my children in there. They have witches, horrid, horrid witches lining the front entrance, along the aisles, and on top of shelves. They even have them standing next to the check out lanes, right at eye level for Eve. Daniel and I have taught her to look away if she sees something like these witches, or cover her eyes when we tell her to. But, here's my question - Is all this necessary? Is it necessary to accost children, and adults for that matter, with these horrible images? I choose, during this season, not to take my children to certain sections of Costco, or Walmart because of the amount of disgusting decorations and items that they have for sale. Really, it's appalling.
Our children, they are so precious. Their minds are incredibly innocent and the images they see are so impactful. How easily influenced they are. I know, not everyone holds my viewpoint. This isn't considered an issue to a lot of people. Perhaps I am seen as silly or archaic, even overprotective. I am okay with that because I don't have to answer to those people. God has given Daniel and I our children; they are a gift, and their innocence is a gift. We intend to guard their hearts to the best of our abilities, all with the understanding that eventually innocence will trade for reality. In knowing all this, we are concentrating on building the character and fortitude our children will need to be able to stand under life's realities. And they will be faced with those realities soon enough. Let's allow our children the innocence of youth.
We have a grocery store chain here in Vermont called Hannaford's, maybe some of you have this store as well. Hannaford's will receive no business from me during this time of year as I absolutely cannot take my children in there. They have witches, horrid, horrid witches lining the front entrance, along the aisles, and on top of shelves. They even have them standing next to the check out lanes, right at eye level for Eve. Daniel and I have taught her to look away if she sees something like these witches, or cover her eyes when we tell her to. But, here's my question - Is all this necessary? Is it necessary to accost children, and adults for that matter, with these horrible images? I choose, during this season, not to take my children to certain sections of Costco, or Walmart because of the amount of disgusting decorations and items that they have for sale. Really, it's appalling.
Our children, they are so precious. Their minds are incredibly innocent and the images they see are so impactful. How easily influenced they are. I know, not everyone holds my viewpoint. This isn't considered an issue to a lot of people. Perhaps I am seen as silly or archaic, even overprotective. I am okay with that because I don't have to answer to those people. God has given Daniel and I our children; they are a gift, and their innocence is a gift. We intend to guard their hearts to the best of our abilities, all with the understanding that eventually innocence will trade for reality. In knowing all this, we are concentrating on building the character and fortitude our children will need to be able to stand under life's realities. And they will be faced with those realities soon enough. Let's allow our children the innocence of youth.
8 Comments:
Andrea,
I applaude your efforts! I too, have always guarded my children during this time of year and have taken quite a bit of criticism over doing so. My children have never been trick-or-treating, because I didn't want to buy into the paganism of the holiday. Maybe over the top, but you know what, they didn't die and now they're teenagers and have turned out pretty well. They're now equipped to make their own decisions about certain things (and their own mistakes) but at least they have a godly foundation to work with. You're doing a great job!
Love your blog. Your protection of your children is beautiful. You're right, their innocence will be gone soon enough
I think you have every right to your opinion....guarding our children is what God wants us to do......your doing it right gal.
I believe protecting our children's innocence is essential to them growing up to be healthy adults. I work hard to protect them. It is not easy. It's not always possible - they will be exposed to things I don't want them to, no matter how hard I try. But it doesn't mean I don't do all that is possible for me to do.
Great post!
I went to walmart today and there were sections that I avoided b/c of the decerations, even though Jericho was sleeping. I agree protecting our children's innocence is very important. The song you talked about is one that I have already started singing to Jericho, I love it! I remember thinking when I'd been married for 2 years that I had lost my innocence and it made me sad. The fact that it didn't happen till I was married amazed me. I'd say that my parents did a very good job protecting me and I plan on doing the same for my kids. Great post and good job protecting your kids!
I've just found your blog. I whole-heartedly agree. I must admit to being somewhat bewildered (ok a LOT bewildered) at how many Christians are ok with Halloween. My son was doing a search book the other day, and one of the items on the list was witch. When he saw that, he crossed the word off of the list, AND he put a big X through the witch herself! Yay! It is so worth it to me that they stay innocent as long as possible. I get so tired of this time of year, and it seems every year they put the decor up earlier and earlier. I even have heard some people say it's their favorite holiday of the whole year. By the way, I'm from Canada, but thanks to your husband for what he does. I so appreciate any and all military members!
I know what you mean, I don't understand why everything has to be decorated in the most scary and gory things around; little kids are so impressionable and some of the things out there give ME nightmares LOL
I just want you to know you are not alone. We don't celebrate Halloween--chiefly because like you said, it's a celebration of evil.
Keep fighting the good fight of protecting purity.
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