You know, the thing about a schedule is that you actually have to follow it for it to work. So far, the last two days have not been spent following my very simple, realistic, and with lots of room for error schedule. It's been blown out of the water. And I, surprisingly, have been okay with that.
When I came up with this particular "general" schedule I did so with my sanity in mind. For my sanity I need a schedule... at least guidelines to tell me how my day is going to look. I don't do well with unstructured time. I hate looking back on my day and thinking - what the heck did I actually do today?! But, I do understand every day comes with it's own set of challenges - I have three children four and under - I need to be flexible. So today I didn't even pay attention to that sheet of paper. I didn't feel like it. I slept until I woke up, I ate a stack of pancakes with the kids, danced around the livingroom with the baby and Eve to "Liza Jane", went on a walk and laughed with the kids as they jumped in every single puddle (and kicked myself for not bringing the camera!!), talked with the neighbors who came barreling out of their houses to see the baby, answered a thousand questions from Eve regarding the "Classic" who is Dolly Parton( I love youtube!)...
"Do Classics get married, Mama?"
"Classics are very beautiful, aren't they Mama?"
"Why did the Classic hug that man?"
My day today has been filled to the brim with unscheduled life and I have enjoyed it very much. So while I firmly believe that for me having a schedule - albeit a loose one - is a very good thing, I need to be able to take life as it comes. Because sometimes watching my daughter sing her heart out to "Liza Jane" using a baster for a microphone could very well be the best part of my day. And that isn't on my schedule anywhere.
When I came up with this particular "general" schedule I did so with my sanity in mind. For my sanity I need a schedule... at least guidelines to tell me how my day is going to look. I don't do well with unstructured time. I hate looking back on my day and thinking - what the heck did I actually do today?! But, I do understand every day comes with it's own set of challenges - I have three children four and under - I need to be flexible. So today I didn't even pay attention to that sheet of paper. I didn't feel like it. I slept until I woke up, I ate a stack of pancakes with the kids, danced around the livingroom with the baby and Eve to "Liza Jane", went on a walk and laughed with the kids as they jumped in every single puddle (and kicked myself for not bringing the camera!!), talked with the neighbors who came barreling out of their houses to see the baby, answered a thousand questions from Eve regarding the "Classic" who is Dolly Parton( I love youtube!)...
"Do Classics get married, Mama?"
"Classics are very beautiful, aren't they Mama?"
"Why did the Classic hug that man?"
My day today has been filled to the brim with unscheduled life and I have enjoyed it very much. So while I firmly believe that for me having a schedule - albeit a loose one - is a very good thing, I need to be able to take life as it comes. Because sometimes watching my daughter sing her heart out to "Liza Jane" using a baster for a microphone could very well be the best part of my day. And that isn't on my schedule anywhere.
6 Comments:
This isn't the first post I've thought "I could have written that" I to have a scedule taped up on the side of the cabinet and we to completely forget about it some days... and sometimes those are the BEST days!
I love the thought of you all singing and dance... that is something I do put on our schedule. :)
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Wait... your kids don't get up until 9am??? How do you manage that?!?! Tell me your secret!
I'm a live (and die) by the calendar/schedule kinda gal! I so need to just let loose of the schedule every once in a while and just let life happen!
I forget about our schedule a few times a week. Sometimes meaning to some not. Some are the best days some not LOL! Sounds like you had one of the better ones though!
Nothing better in the world than singing with your little girls. Love it!
Very well put. I just love those kind of days.....my daughter enjoys watching Cola Miners daughter and talking about Loretta Lynn. She finds her so fascinating we went to her Loretta's dude ranch a year ago and toured her plantation home in the hills of Tn.......those times are priceless.
AWWW...schedules, I love them, and yet...when do I ever follow them!!
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