Two little slices of banana stand in the way of Eve and her afternoon snack. The rule around here is this: You can choose to eat your meal and have a snack later or you can choose to not finish your meal and miss out on snack.
This rule works good for us but sometimes, like today, I have to shake my head at the logic of my children. Eve could have eaten those two pieces of banana in one bite, but she chose not to. And I have to stick to my guns.
She's such a silly, silly girl at times.
It's good that our kids learn to make their own choices, and it's also good for our kids to see how those choices directly affect them. This consistent real life learning, in a loving home, may start out small but over the years will translate into great life lessons. The consequences of their choices are minor today, in ten years they may not be so minor, but the love will still be the same.
Two stinkin' slices of banana...
This rule works good for us but sometimes, like today, I have to shake my head at the logic of my children. Eve could have eaten those two pieces of banana in one bite, but she chose not to. And I have to stick to my guns.
She's such a silly, silly girl at times.
It's good that our kids learn to make their own choices, and it's also good for our kids to see how those choices directly affect them. This consistent real life learning, in a loving home, may start out small but over the years will translate into great life lessons. The consequences of their choices are minor today, in ten years they may not be so minor, but the love will still be the same.
Two stinkin' slices of banana...
9 Comments:
Thats a great rule! We have eating issues over here but like you I have found sticking to my guns not always to be the easy thing but to be the necessary thing.
Wish more parents had the same logic as you!
We have exactly the same rule and tonight, it was all over 1 small piece of chicken. We had to stick to guns as well, which meant a lot of angry screaming all night. He can be a stubborn, stubborn boy. But that stick-to-it-iveness will hopefully we an asset one day!
Good for you for being consistent.
It's amazing how these children will choose what to fight over. But like you said, it's better for them to be learning these lessons now, when they're small and in the midst of a loving home, rather than finding it out in the "real" world. Makes me think about how God feels towards us when He asks us something small and yet we fight Him....
What an awesome idea.
I'd eat the banana.
Stick to them guns Momma! We need to be more like this with Oceana. She's got a will... oh dear...
Oh yes, we fight these battles with Gwen especially. She would eat snacks all three meals, if I let her. Instead, she rarely gets snacks, since she refuses her meals . . .
oh gosh...lol..this made me smile. We have the same sort of policy at our house.
LOL...just too cute. Did she get upset later when she couldn't have the snack then?
Hope you and your beautiful family are having a great week! xoxo
I have the same rule at my house. I have huge eating issues with the bf's daughter. She is learning though, but it is a major power struggle and hard lessons to learn. I'm glad to hear there are parents who chose good for their children to eat good for them food rather than giving in and giving kis whatever they want to eat.
OY! We do something very similar and doesn't it stink when they do that.
Brittany
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